Don’t Be Shy: How To Settle In When Moving Overseas


Whether you are moving abroad for work purposes or to enjoy a better standard of living, one of the biggest challenges can be making new friends and settling in. It doesn’t matter how outgoing or confident you may be, there is no denying that moving to a new location where you do not know anyone can be very daunting. In this post, we are going to provide you with some top tips for settling in and making friends when you move abroad. 

Discover if there are any local clubs to join

From sports clubs to comedy clubs, you should take a look on the Internet or in local magazines to see if there is anything going on in the area. This is a good way to meet new people who have shared interests with you. You have a much greater chance of finding friends if you put yourself out there a bit and go to the different events and clubs that are available.

Learn the language 

– If you are moving to a country where the language is foreign to you, you should definitely try and learn the basics as quickly as you can. This will help you to make friends with the locals, as we will touch upon in our next point. If locals hear that you are trying to learn their language they will be much more understanding and appreciative.

Join expat forums before you move 

– One of the best ways to make friends and gather useful information, such as advice about local schools and the best medical centre in the area, before you move is to join an expat forum. You will find that there are plenty of expat forums on the Internet dedicated to various cities and communities. You can start up a conversation and get talking to people. Not only may you make some friends, but also it is likely that you will pick up some really useful tips before you move.

Be brave

 Are you one of those people that wouldn’t dream of going to a bar or restaurant by themselves? A lot of people feel the same way, but now is the time to be brave. You are bound to start talking to others if you pull up a seat at a bar. Once you have a drink in your hand the nerves will start to settle and you will find that the conversation begins to flow.

Make an effort with the locals 

– Try to get to know the local people too. Don’t only stick to the expat community. You will find that your life will be made a lot easier if you integrate with the local community, as they will be willing to help you with anything you may require, such as translation.

So there you have it – some top tips for settling in when moving to an overseas location. If you follow the points that have been provided in this blog post, you are sure to make lots of new friends and find the overall experience much easier and more enjoyable.


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